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Malise’s Practical Steps to Peace

My “Peace in a nutshell” Guide… Recognise that you are a divine spark from the Creator. Let go of the old paradigm of simply surviving. Give every concern, worry, doubt, problem, challenge, and burden up to a higher power. Replace all concerns with trust. Ask your Awareness to show you all of your disempowering programming […]

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Fear of Death

Fear of death.  Only a couple years ago this was my biggest terror. I would wake up in the still wee hours of the night in a fearful panic, lying in my bed staring out the blackness. It was these moments when I felt the most insecure, the uncertainty of who I was beyond my […]

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Peace: Your Birthright

Living Without Peace If you’ve ever been involved or brushed with the self-development industry you will be very familiar with the promises of everlasting peace that are thrown around. The same promises will usually be afforded to love, joy and freedom. Of course, if these methods, practices and promises really worked, why do the same […]

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Online Dating Shortcuts: Finding Genuine Romance

The goal is not to attract everyone – rather, attract someone that compliments YOU. Your Profile Be specific about your unique interests, hobbies, skills, talents, style, humour, etc. Include your favourite saying or inspirational quote if you have one. Have a photo – make it natural and genuine, a closer headshot, ensure you smile (no […]

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How to find your Prince or Princess Charming

Did you know you have a little thing called a Reticular Activating System inside your brain stem? Never heard of it? Basically, it’s a network of neurons that filter out what you consider to be unnecessary information so that you can keep focus on what you want to see, out there in the world. If […]

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Striving often leads to sadness

Are you a high achiever, do you feel better about yourself if you are constantly working on something, or producing something, or building towards something? Striving – achieving, working towards a goal. This is okay on its own, it’s not the problem. It’s what we team striving with that causes dysfunction. We often team striving […]

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The Time Machine will take me to my purpose…

How a seemingly chaotic set of skills can lead to a fulfilling career… I SPENT A LONG TIME CONFUSED ABOUT MY PURPOSE. I assumed it was supposed to be something very clear and defined, very mainstream, widely recognized and most importantly, with predefined steps to follow. I was hunting for a guidebook hidden somewhere mysterious, authored […]

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What a Bitch But, I Love Her Hair

How to remain balanced and positive when you feel like gossiping or criticising… The other day I was speaking to my colleague about complaining. I wasn’t complaining and neither was he. We were talking about the subject of complaining. In other words, whinging, bitching, wining, gossiping etc., all those wonderful ways of communicating. He told […]

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I wrote myself a letter…

I wrote myself a letter, to be opened on the 1st December 2029, my fiftieth birthday. I signed it and sealed it in an envelope and put it away in my accordion files. So my letter sits somewhere to be forgotten for a few decades. It blows my mind how this could blow my mind. […]

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